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Effective Virtual Conversations Reading - Day 30

5/8/2020

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Welcome back to Day 30 of the Effective Virtual Conversations reading series.  Day 30 explores pages 81 to 84 of Chapter 3 – What Every Conversation Needs: Essential Elements and Core Skills. In today’s reading we are exploring the 5 W's and and H around questions.

Being able to ask great questions is imperative to success. What are the key questions which are going to help your team move forward?
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Be sure to have a pen and your journal handy or today’s reading – you’ll want to take notes and put these questions into practice right away!
 
Enjoy,
Jennifer
 
Jennifer Britton
Founder and CEO - Potentials Realized
Phone: 416-996-8326
Author of several books including Effective Virtual Conversations (2017) and PlanDoTrack for Virtual and Remote Professionals (2019) - pick up a digital PDF copy of PlanDoTrack at our site.
Contact us to discuss support for your remote workspace - team, individual and organizational coaching, training and virtual facilitation
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Effective Virtual Conversations Reading - Day 29

5/7/2020

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Welcome back to Day 29 of the Effective Virtual Conversations reading series. We are in the middle of Chapter 3 – What Every Conversation Needs: Essential Elements and Core Skills. Today’s reading takes us through pages 77 to 81 and the following chapters:
  • Silence – how much silence and pause are you creating in your work?
  • Questioning
  • Questioning Words and Voice
  • Questioning Frameworks
 
As I write “Questions form the backbone to any coaching conversation”.
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Questions in the remote space can be use to expand awareness, support action or discoveries or help people make connections.

Listen in to tomorrow’s episode as I share a series of questions along the 5 W's and an H framework.

Best,
​Jennifer
Jennifer Britton
Founder and CEO - Potentials Realized
Phone: 416-996-8326
Author of several books including Effective Virtual Conversations (2017) and PlanDoTrack for Virtual and Remote Professionals (2019) - pick up a digital PDF copy of PlanDoTrack at our site.
Contact us to discuss support for your remote workspace - team, individual and organizational coaching, training and virtual facilitation
Download a copy of the Remote Working Whitepaper here
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Effective Virtual Conversations Reading - Day 28

5/6/2020

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Welcome back! It’s day 28 of the Effective Virtual Conversations reading series. Day 28 takes us to pages 74 – 77 into several of the core skills which are needed for great communication in the virtual and remote space. In today’s reading I cover a number of different skills including:
  • Priming People for Listening
  • Clarity and Conciseness of Communication
  • Articulation and Mirroring Back
  • Reading the Environment
  • Skills of Inquiry and Reflection

​What are the skills which need further focus on your end? What skills are strengths and you can lean into?
Jennifer Britton
Founder and CEO - Potentials Realized
Phone: 416-996-8326
Author of several books including Effective Virtual Conversations (2017) and PlanDoTrack for Virtual and Remote Professionals (2019) - pick up a digital PDF copy of PlanDoTrack at our site.
Contact us to discuss support for your remote workspace - team, individual and organizational coaching, training and virtual facilitation
Download a copy of the Remote Working Whitepaper here
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Effective Virtual Conversations Reading - Day 27

5/5/2020

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Welcome back – it’s day 27 of the Effective Virtual Conversations reading! Day 27 takes us into Chapter 3 pages 71 to 73. In today’s reading I share with you eight core skills areas exceptional virtual facilitators need. This includes Creating the Context, Communication, Process, Tools, Group Development, Ourselves as Facilitators, Technical and Design. As I read through the different areas, note the skills which you bring to the table, and think about the skills you want to refine in order to have better conversations with your audiences.
Jennifer Britton
Founder and CEO - Potentials Realized
Phone: 416-996-8326
Author of several books including Effective Virtual Conversations (2017) and PlanDoTrack for Virtual and Remote Professionals (2019) - pick up a digital PDF copy of PlanDoTrack at our site.
Contact us to discuss support for your remote workspace - team, individual and organizational coaching, training and virtual facilitation
Download a copy of the Remote Working Whitepaper here
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Virtual Conversation Skills in Focus: Communication (Part 2 of 8)

1/29/2018

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Last week here at the blog I shared the first of eight skill areas which are important in virtual facilitation - Setting the Context.

Today we look at another Skill area - Communication.  At the heart of great conversations is this skill set which I break down to:
  • Listening
  • Inquiry and reflection
  • Reading the environment
  • Questioning
  • Pace and Pitch

Let's look briefly at each one (and a reminder that I go into much greater depth in chapter 3 of EVC):

Listening: Depending on the type of virtual conversation platform we are using listening can be enhanced or deepened by other senses - such as seeing when we are on a streaming call.

Listening is a skill set which may not be as well developed. Communication is not only what is being said but how we interpret it. How are you listening?
Here are some questions to consider from my Teams365 blog:
As you consider your own listening skills right now, reflect on these questions:
  • What are you listening for?
  • What do you notice about how it is being said?
  • What is aligned? What is not? (Notice alignment of words, with pace and pitch. Words and body language?
  • What are you not listening for?
  • Are you listening or are you thinking about what you are going to say next?

Inquiry and Reflection - The Fifth Discipline Fieldbook notes "Two types of skill are central to this work: they are reflection (slowing down our thinking processes to become more aware of how we form our mental models) and inquiry (holding conversations where we openly share views and develop knowledge about each other's assumptions)" (pp 77, Senge et al)
What are you doing to build in inquiry and reflection into your design - for example - not trying to fit too much into calls or

Reading the environment - When you spend time in the virtual space you begin to notice the energy of a call. Some feel as if the air has been sucked out while others pass like the blink of an eye. As we'll see in other posts (and throughout the book) masterful virtual facilitators "read the room" and are adept at using questions, and pace changes, to adjust.

Questioning - Questions form the backbone to any great conversation, and in the arena of communication questions are a virtual facilitators ally. Key things to keep in mind:
Use open ended questions (starting with What) to invite people into the conversation
Be aware that HOW questions will
Keep them short - 5-7 words only
Watch how many questions you are asking at once. More than one or two and you may notice the silence on the other side which could indicate - what are they asking?
Avoid Why questions until there are high levels of trust. Why questions often put people on the defense.

Pace and Pitch - the final area I wanted to touch on in this post is getting you to think about the pace you want to set in your virtual call. Consider the individuals you are working wtih. Are they quick paced? Do they appreciate a reflective pause?
How are you using silence to allow people to think, and reflect?
What are you doing to change the way people engage - i.e. using visuals or breakouts or annotation. I cover many of these questions in community calls, as well as my monthly newsletter for Effective Virtual Conversation enthusiasts.
Consider: What's the best pace and pitch for this group?

Over the next month or two I’ll be exploring some of the many skills housed in these eight areas. For more on this you may want to check out my January 2018 Community Call, as well as Chapter 3 of Effective Virtual Conversations where I explore these skills more in-depth.

Out of the five skills I have highlighted today, which ones are your strengths? What can you do to leverage these more? Which one would you like to put more attention around?

Have a great week,
Jennifer

Jennifer Britton
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    Join Effective Virtual Conversations Author Jennifer Britton for regular posts to spark your ideas and conversations virtually! Jennifer is the author of five books including her latest PlanDoTrack.
    As an award-winning program designer, coach and facilitator she provides train-the-trainers in the areas of virtual facilitation, group and team coaching.
    Her training is known for it's depth, practicality and focus on creating an exceptional learning experience.
    Learn more about her supports for virtual and remote teams, and leaders at PotentialsRealized.com.

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